A joke about control bad temper

Husband: "How to control your temper when you are angry?"
Wife: "Every time you got angry and I went to clean up the toilet."
Husband: "Cleaning up the toilet can help you to control a bad temper?"
Wife: "I ​​use your toothbrush."

What should I do

I feel so troubled with one thing, and I don't have any solution.In october 2010, my best friend borrow RMB 3000 because of urgent need. She made a promise to pay the money back within 3 months. But there is no message of paying back, because we are so close friends, and I didn't need to use money, so I never talk about that money. But later, her husband also borrow RMB 4000 from us, and later borrow RMB 20000. Till this month, it is almost one and half a year.Last year, we met lots of things which spended lots of money, but when I mentioned the money, they avoid this topic, we know they are in unhealthy financial status, but we are also in trouble. How should I do? We had an overdraft of nearly RMB 30000, so we have to cut out a great deal of unnecessary expenditure, sometimes we have no money in the middle of a month, it is a unforgettable year. I want to say to my friend "Pay back our money, we are need them eagerly" everytime, but I can not say them out, those words will hurt our relationship. Friendship is hard to bulid up, but easy to destory it. We should cherish it. But those days, my husband want to buy a car because it is far away from his workplace, it nearly takes one and half an hour on the way to his office.But....What should I do, who can tell me?

If you hang in there

May be we are not very clever, but if we can hang in there, we can also make a good job. We should remember a worthy proverb "Constant dropping of water wears away a stone".


May be we are not strong, but we have a upright and kind heart. When others are in trouble, we can give them added strength and support.


May be we don't have enough of money or time to travel all over the world, but if we hang in there, we can travel the neighbouring places until we know I love life which is no matter with money and time.


May be we think we have so many faults, but if we try to correct our shortcoming everyday, we will say goodbye to our fault one day. Just hang in there.


May be we smile to others is a easy thing, but when we are in trouble, we also can take happiness to others, it is hard. If we hang in there, we will find we can get more smile and help.


So, Just hang in there!

Just for yesterday

Yesterday, it is my birthday, my husband had reserved a quite good restaurant for our dinner, but it is a pity, my software program crashed, and I can not find the reason at once, everyone in our team is waiting for my program,because about 300 users will use our system from Sunday. In a word, I was in trouble.Last night, I have no time for supper, it was 11.:30 when I came back. I have to say it is a special birthday. I am waiting for my birthday presents which are two beautiful skirts, my husband bought them for me online. Thanks my husband!

A boring day

Today, I am busy with the written material, which is needed tomorrow. In fact, I am strange to the WBAN (wireless body area network), so, it is a difficult thing to search the related material.But everything has a resolution, I must finish this task.
I found lots of papers about WBAN, and found some products about WBAN, now I have plenty of material, some of them can be used directly. I feel good now, but how to do it better, it is the first time for me, I hope I can get some precious experience, because everyone should be better than yesterday.
On Sunday,  I will attend a presentation of our system, there will about 300 elderly people who will try our products, I think it is very interesting, and I hope it is successful.
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Improve myself

Today, I finished the things I decided to do yesterday, it is a full and interesting day.

We should improve ourselves everyday, and we must learn something everyday. Life is limited, but the knowledge we need to learn is infinite, we should cherish every minute, and spend everyday as the last day of our life.

How to improve my social skills

Sometimes, I can not find any subjects to talk with others, if feel bad. I don't know why? Because I don't love life, or I am an unimaginative girl. It's so boring.
I hope I can relax anywhere, and can make more friends.I find some social skills which are very useful. I think If I try to do something, I can do it well.

Learning by observation is also important

You have to directly practice skills like making conversation. While you're around people, you also can't help but take in what everyone is else doing and incorporate some of the ideas you pick up into yourself. This goes for learning positive new things to do, but also what to avoid. It's good to be open to learning from anyone. Sometimes you may not be crazy about a person on the whole, but you could still pick up some good isolated skills from them.

Like with direct practice, this process is gradual. You won't change overnight just from watching people, but eventually the benefits will pile up. It's another reason to simply spend more time in social situations. At times the observation process is conscious and deliberate, like you'll notice someone has an effective way of introducing themselves, and decide to do the same thing. Just as often, it all happens automatically. As you hang around people enough, certain traits of theirs will rub off on you without you noticing it's happening.

Through your day-to-day life

Unless you're really isolated, you'll find yourself in several social situations each day. You'll run into people you know. You'll have to talk to classmates, customers, or coworkers. You may hang out with friends or your partner. These are all good practice opportunities, especially if you view them that way and consciously try to get something out of them, instead of just doing what you always do without thinking too much about it.
And if you can just find a way to put yourself in these situations a little more, than you can get more practice time in. Try to make a little more small talk than normal with the people at your job, or start having lunch with them if you don't already. Hang out with your friends for a little longer. If you normally hold back in conversations, try to take part more. Without getting too caught up in over-analysis, purposefully pay attention to what you're doing, and to what works and what doesn't.

Get a job that involves socializing

You can get a lot of practice from having a part-time job that forces you to generally be sociable, or to learn and apply specific skills. Another benefit is that the position may have a lot of other people around your age working there. Some examples are:

• Retail - Approaching and helping customers in person, learning to be pleasant and friendly.
• Being a waiter - Same as above, more or less.
• Bartending - Making chit chat with customers.
• Working as a cashier - Having to make small talk with lots of people.
• Customer service over the phone - Again, general experience talking to people.
• Sales (in person or over the phone) - Learning to be personable, assertive, and persuasive, handling nerves and rejection.
• Any job where you have tons of coworkers, like a call center - Good change to meet people.

For some of these, the idea of specific vs. spill over practice comes into play. Being a charming, witty restaurant server doesn't guarantee you won't feel shy or quiet in other situations, but all that time chatting to patrons has to help at least somewhat.

Social informatization

With the development of social informatization, the operation of the Society is the operation of softwares, and the history of the Society is the history of the data.

We will find the importance of data mining and data analysis.